How I Think I Should Be Is B***S***
I wasn't happy and I wasn't being who I was. I knew there was more. I didn't feel free. I felt locked up.
Can you relate?
This book will encourage and inspire you to take steps forward in your journey and live a life with less B***S***
How can I be my true self?
I'm successful in life so why don't I feel happy?
Why do I feel like something is missing?
Does being who I truly am mean having to destroy everything I've created?
Who Is This Book For?
We are all humans, trying to figure out how to balance our responsibilities and live life to the fullest. This book is written for professional women who are struggling with how to be real, honest, and creative.
PROFESSIONAL
What if it's possible to be professional AND authentic?
What if this idea that we have to be hoity-toity, stuck-up people to appear competent is total B***S***?
WOMEN
What if this idea that something is "wrong with us" if we are powerful and engage in the entire emotional spectrum is total B***S***?
MOTHERS
What if we didn't have to choose between being a supportive and caring mother, and supporting and caring about ourselves?
What if thinking we don't have a choice is B***S***?
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Together, we will explore...
How I've dealt with all of the big questions of life like grief, intimacy, hatred, aggression, and power
The BS of how women are supposed to be this "certain way"
How I shifted the trajectory of my life after the disappointment of realizing I wasn't going to have 3 kids
What I realized about change and doing things my way, and how that made me happier without blowing up my life
Here is what others are saying about the book...
“Eileen takes you on a magical journey painted so beautifully with her words. She shares a lifetime of wisdom, experience, and heartache both poignant and passionate. Magnificently laid before you like an elaborate feast to nourish your soul and expand your heart.”
Donna Velasco
Transformational Life Coach
“This gem of a book is a deep and honest description of one woman’s spiritual journey in the midst of a “regular” life. It offers readers both courage and hope, demonstrating how staying true to one’s inner knowing can provide a path to the place we most yearn to reach—the healing and wholeness that awaits in our own hearts and souls.”
Jane Sloven, Writer, Psychotherapist, Healer
"The many questions she poses are so relevant that if we have even a small inkling to explore more than the superficial layers of our personality, this book can be the guide. She walks us intimately through her challenge allowing us to witness as she faces ALL parts of herself - no matter how contrary to the image of how she prefers. It brought up many of my own questions and conflicts in such a natural way that revelations came along the way with no pressure.”
Karen Atkins, Singer/Songwriter, Vitality Educator
“If you’ve ever felt like you needed to “be” a certain way to meet the expectations of others, this book is a must-read. It will feed your soul in unexpected ways! Eileen inspires us with her courage to explore that there is “MORE” to life. I had tears, laughter, and so many “aha” moments while reading this book. It brought me a deep sense of healing and connection.”
Karen Hammond M.A. Counseling
“Eileen Marder-Mirman has written a thoughtful memoir that reflects upon the experiences in her life that led her to pursue spiritual healing. Her willingness to be open and honest with herself encourages her readers to be equally brave in identifying the pieces of their lives that don’t feel quite right. It helps others determine how they, too, can find a path to more peace within and move towards healing.” “This gem of a book is a deep and honest description of one woman’s spiritual journey in the midst of a “regular” life. It offers readers both courage and hope, demonstrating how staying true to one’s inner knowing can provide a path to the place we most yearn to reach—the healing and wholeness that awaits in our own hearts and souls.”
Lila Edelkind, M.A. Education
About Eileen Marder-Mirman
Eileen Marder-Mirman’s passion is to help people to be free. Throughout her entire life, having the normal experiences of grief, loss, and celebration, she has always stayed aligned with knowing she is part of a larger reality and is committed to helping others feel guided, and on the path to healing and authenticity.
As a New York State Licensed Mental Health Counselor and a spiritual healing teacher for more than 45 years, Eileen specializes in integrating psychotherapy, spirituality, meditation, and various forms of alternative healing in her private practice. For the past 20 years, she has been a senior teacher and supervisor at A Society of Souls, The School for Nondual Healing and Awakening.
Eileen has led numerous healing retreats in Europe and the United States and has practiced meditation for 50 years. She graduated from Syracuse University with a Master’s in Counseling in 1977 and continuously studies new psychological and healing modalities such as Nondual Kabbalistic Healing, Gestalt Therapy, PSYCH-K®, energy psychology, Therapeutic Touch, Reiki, and the therapeutic use of aromatherapy.
Eileen believes that it’s never too late to wake up to becoming the authentic person you were born to be. And most importantly, we don't have to stay stuck in the patterns of our history!
Eileen lives in New York with her husband and two cats and makes sure that she sees her grandson every week. When she isn’t healing or teaching, she is knitting, exploring art and going to the theater in New York (again and again). You might also find her obsessing over new apartments or recovering from colds she gets from her grandson’s daycare. Her greatest joy in life is her family, both near and far.
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